My Friends.........

Friends , in every phase of our life we come across friends, and all of these friends are different from each other , they have their own ways of expressing their feelings, of carrying their relations with you.

I have made many in my life , and not all of them are close to my heart, but yes some of them are very close to me and they will be forever. The most interesting part of all this is how they become close to you. This again will be a series of Posts, since I have had so many friends during my different phases of life and I dont wanna disappoint any of them. Let me start of with one my colleagues ............ whom I consider a good friend of mine. Now let me tell u one more thing, if i consider some one close to me , it is not necessary that he/she will think in similar fashion.

I think to call some one your as your close friend, SHARING,CARING , UNDERSTANDING and FAITH are the most important factors.

There was this friend of mine, we had done our college together and we werent very good friends in college, but after getting into the same company we gradually became good friends. During our college days I always used to think that this girl has loads of attitude and i never thought that i willl consider her as one of my close freinds.

All of you might agree that you need to give sme time to any relation, only then the relation develops, but yes besides giving time I guess the rapport also counts. you just cannot spend time and try to develop a close relation with anyone. I never ever got a chance to spend time with her during my college days nor did i try. It someohow happened that both of us came in a group during the training period and then it just rolled off ............. being from the same college, we had lots of things in common to talk about and yes i even realised that we had a good rapport between us , sharing jokes, playng pranks ( most of the times she played it on me ).

The best part which i thought about her was the way she cared and valued her relations. She never exprssed things directly, she had her own way of expressing herself. And yes this is one girl who has beauty with brains. Being beautiful she always had lots of guys trying to get along with her, but she had a very good brain to deal with such situations, but I still remember times when she had to face situations when she needed my help to get rid off someone asking her company on the weekends.

whenever I had some time, i used to dial her extension and we always used to meet up in our office canteen have coffee and talk over various things, laugh, pull someone's legs and we used to enjoy doing it.

With time I had started realising that whatever i thought about her during my college days wasnt right, to know some one, u need to spend time with him/her and shouldnt make any presumptions.

We had many similarities in our likings, our taste of music, the passion of writing and many such things. Infact, she even shared a secret with me, which I guess is known only to me ............ she has shared her BLOG identity where she writes everything. Well this is how our friendship grew with time............. I was reall happy to find another good friend , she is amongst those friends whom i really treasure in my life.

Time flew by and we had become good friends over a year. I didnt realise how much i cherished her friendship until she joined another company. And it happens with most of the relations, u do not realise the importance unless the person is gone.

I had promised her that i would dedicate a POST to her and that is what i did. Anyways I wouldnt do it for all of my friends, just a few previliged ones.................... and she is one of them!!!!!!